Some people are curious as to why a registry? Am I angry? Spiteful? Vengeful? Not in the least. I understand I may never see my own child again. I have dealt with that. She may come around when she turns eighteen, it might be longer than that, it might be never. No one can go on living in such a manner.
I have come to the realization that my child may have (or has) already developed the same mental illness her mother has (or at least many traits characteristic of the mental illness) If she were a stranger, I would choose NOT to associate with her. NOT ONE BIT! I hope that you all too can gain the strength and clarity to realize that once you get out of an abusive, toxic relationship, you DO NOT EVER go back!!! Right now, any relationship with my child would be toxic too. She has already clearly demonstrated the parroted actions and words of her pathogenic mother. Why would anyone subject themselves to that again. I have realized that the behaviors demonstrated by the alienating parent are ABUSE, are HARMFUL, and are CRIMINAL! just because our government does not officially recognize it as such does not mean it affects us any less. They want to behave like criminal, we should treat them as such.
In many (all?) states there is a child pedophile/abuser/sex offender registry. Those monsters have hurt children. So have the ones we are dealing with. If it important enough for the state to identify such monsters then it is societies job (OUR JOB) to identify the monsters too.